When You Feel Too Old for This

“Then King Rehoboam consulted the elders who stood before his father Solomon while he still lived, and he said, “How do you advise me to answer these people?” And they spoke to him, saying, “If you will be a servant to these people today and serve them, and answer them, and speak good words to them, then they will be your servants forever” (1 Kings 12:6-7 NKJV).

I confess. Recently I’ve wrestled with this thought more than once:

“Am I too old for this?”

If you're in your twenties or thirties, you may not have that thought yet. But I've become acquainted with this crazy voice whispering in my ear:

“Time to trade in the trendy platform shoes for a pair of comfy flats. My feet just aren’t what they used to be.”

“Gotta be in bed by nine because my internal clock won’t let me sleep past five, even on Saturday.”

“Maybe I’ll buy that sheer under-shirt they keep advertising on TV. The one that makes the back of your arms look less flabby.”

“I’m glad the silver hair look is the new in thing!”

It’s so easy to look around and notice the younger crowd. But this shouldn't deter me from my mission or cause me to lose my drive! God has a special work for each of us – young, old, and somewhere in-between.

In 1 Kings, chapter 12, King Rehoboam consulted a group of wise elders who served his father Solomon. Solomon was known for his wisdom. Rehoboam, unfortunately, was not.

“Then King Rehoboam consulted the elders who stood before his father Solomon while he still lived, and he said, “How do you advise me to answer these people?” And they spoke to him, saying, “If you will be a servant to these people today and serve them, and answer them, and speak good words to them, then they will be your servants forever” (1 Kings 12:6-7 NKJV).

This passage of scripture highlights that there’s value in wisdom that comes from life experiences. These men served under Solomon and gained a wealth of experience under his reign. Unfortunately, Rehoboam did not follow the elder’s counsel. (That however, is a lesson for another post.)

Today, we need to claim God’s perfect purpose that He lovingly gave to each one of us. As we grow and mature, this purpose doesn’t fade or wither. It only grows deeper and stronger.

Our desire to serve never ends, no matter how old we are. Once God places it in our hearts, it’s there for good.

My we all feel rejuvenated by these words and give that crazy voice of ours an attitude overhaul.

“I’ll never be too old for this. In fact, this is just the beginning!”


What does the 'I can do all things' verse really mean?

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 NKJV

We just love this verse, don’t we?

In fact, if you ask most Christians to list their favorite verses, this one would top the list for many. It unleashes the conqueror in us. No feat is too big when we speak this verse!

However, sometimes I get so excited about it that I take the words out of context. Allow me to share a few real examples:

You need me to watch your four kids for the weekend while you and your husband attend a marriage retreat? No problem!

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

I should coach my son’s soccer team because no one else will volunteer? Sure!

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

You mean the children’s Sunday school teacher didn’t show up or call? I’ll teach the class today!

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

No one stayed to clean up after the fellowship dinner? Allow me!

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

The result? Burn out. Exhaustion. Illness. Bitterness.

 

Because 'I can do all things' doesn’t mean I should do everything all at once.

 

We often feel like we should be able to take on more and do more, because of the strength we have through Christ. Yes, God gives us supernatural strength through Jesus. But the purpose of this strength isn’t so we can overload our schedules trying to please others. The context of this verse gives us insight into its importance.

“Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.” Phil 4:11-12

In his letter to the church at Philippi, Paul explains his experience as a Christ follower. At times he had plenty, but at other times he suffered. Either way, he drew on the strength of Christ to see him through. So by the context of this powerful chapter, we see that all things simply means anything God asks us to do.

Paul was willing to enter any situation that would bring people closer to Christ. And with Jesus’ strength, Paul could endure. So, we can think of the verse this way:

“I can do anything God asks me to do through Christ who strengthens me.” (Tweet this.)

If you have occasionally recited this verse out of desperation when an overloaded schedule robbed you of your energy, find comfort in Paul’s lesson today. God doesn’t expect you to do everything all at once. He only asks that you obediently follow Him.

Now that’s reason to proclaim, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Kristine

 

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