Why Our Imperfections Are Important

Mistakes happen. I know. But this was not just one mistake. It was two. In the same day.

Suddenly, my lighthearted attitude about making mistakes turned into questioning my abilities. How could a task-oriented, detail-driven girl like me make two mistakes in the same day? 

Making mistakes can make me feel inadequate.

Defeated.

Unable to do the job or complete the task.

The truth is, sometimes I get caught up in my own ability to get the job done, and I run ahead full speed. Tackling one task with ease gives me the confidence to take on another. And another.

Before I know it, I've run into a wall, because I didn't slow down long enough to place my confidence where it belongs.

“But He said to me, ’My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10, NIV)

In verse 9, Paul explains to the church at Corinth how God responded to him when he asked God to take away a "thorn in his flesh." Paul knew the purpose of that thorn, or weakness. Verse 7 says, "... in order to keep me from becoming conceited."

God allowed Paul to carry the weakness to keep his dependence in the right place. God said, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." (v. 8)

Paul accepted his weakness with gladness, knowing full well he needed it. I'm inspired by how Paul acknowledged his own vulnerability. He wanted to remain humble. Keep the focus of his life and ministry on Christ. God provided grace for Paul, and He does the same for us.

Even when our mistakes reveal our weaknesses.

No one likes to have imperfections exposed. Thankfully, His power is made perfect in our weakness. (Tweet this.)

A mistake shouldn't cause us to question our abilities. It simply provides a pause for us to check our dependence. Have we become reliant on ourselves rather than our Savior? Do we put pressure on ourselves to never make a mistake?

God cares enough about us to expose our weaknesses, so He can shine through our lives.

Mistakes are OK. They happen. We are imperfect. But through those imperfections, God's power is revealed. Like Paul, let's embrace our weaknesses, knowing we can rely on God's strength instead of our own. 

Kristine

Trusting God's Voice

“Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.” Psalms 20:7 (NIV)

 

I watched him sleeping, his lethargic six-week old body with IV’s in both hands. This was not how I envisioned my first Mother’s Day.

Two nurses came in and prepared to run another IV with some type of antibiotic fluid. I listened to their whispers. My heart tightened. I realized they were discussing putting the IV needle in his head, because that’s where they could see the vein.

I'm sure the nurses were well trained. I'm sure they knew what they were doing. But something about it didn't feel right.

There I stood, a young mom with a history of shying away from confrontation. But the Holy Spirit clearly directed me at that moment. It was time to speak up and voice my opposition to this treatment option.

It was time to trust God's voice.

There are times in life when God directs us to trust others, but never before trusting Him. (Tweet this.)

If we ask him each day to direct our steps and guide us in decision-making, He will intervene when those difficult moments arise.

Trust is hard. I often question if I heard Him right.

We’ve all experienced moments of doubt. We've all feared making a mistake. We've wondered whether to be silent or speak up.

So what is the answer when we don't know what to do? We remember where to place our trust.

“Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God.” Psalms 20:7 (NIV)

Merriam-Webster dictionary defines trust this way:

  • to believe that someone or something is reliable, good, honest
  • to believe that something is true or correct
  • to hope or expect that something is true

Since Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding,” (emphasis added) we can interpret the definition this way:

  • to believe that the Lord is reliable, good, honest
  • to believe that the Lord is true or correct
  • to hope or expect that the Lord is true

If ever I needed to trust and believe that the Lord was correct, it was that moment. I spoke up, and the nurses responded in agreement to my concerns.

Soon after, the results came back with good news. A couple of nights later we took our baby home.

I listened to God's prompting that day in the hospital. I also learned a valuable lesson. At times, God directs us to boldness. Other times He beckons us to be silent. As long as we put our trust in God, His Holy Spirit continues to guide our hearts and actions in every situation.

As we grow closer to God, hearing and trusting His voice becomes easier. Let’s draw closer to Him today and put ourselves in a position to discern God's voice in our lives.

Kristine

For more on how to trust God's voice, check out this devotional, 2 Ways to Choose Trust, by fellow writer and life coach, Carmen Horne.